About Me

Hi, I’m Elfreda

As a midwife and a mom raising two kids far from family, I truly understand how isolating and exhausting it can be to do it all on your own. I vividly remember those nights—feeling physically drained and emotionally stretched thin, trying to juggle it all without the safety net of a support system.

With no family nearby to step in, the weight of every sleepless night, every endless cycle of rocking and feeding, fell entirely on me. The exhaustion wasn’t just physical—it started to seep into my ability to enjoy motherhood, to stay present, and to care for myself.

I burned out quickly because I was running on empty, and I know I’m not alone in that.  It’s an overwhelming place to be, and it’s exactly why I’m so passionate about helping other parents find a way through it. You deserve rest, support, and the space to truly enjoy this season of life.

But everything changed when I found a way to help my kids sleep independently. With routines in place, bedtime stopped being a struggle, and I finally had time to care for myself too.

I became a sleep consultant because I know how exhausting sleepless nights are, and I don’t want other parents to feel that way. Watching children thrive on new sleep routines and seeing parents transform from exhausted to energized is the reason I love what I do.

Every family is unique, which is why I focus on empathy, support, and being available whenever you need me.  Living internationally has also shown me how important it is for parents to get a moment to themselves.

A simple cup of coffee or a quiet shower can make all the difference—and good sleep makes those moments possible.  When you work with me, I want you to feel understood, supported, and confident.

My goal is to help your family build healthy sleep habits, so you can finally get the rest you need and enjoy the moments that matter most.

Because every family deserves the gift of good sleep—and so do you.

Midwife, Pediatric Sleep Consultant, Wife and Mom of Two.

  • Elfreda is literally a lifesaver. She guided me with my toddler that struggled to fall asleep and continously woke at night to breastfeed. After receiving help from Elfreda my baby falls asleep on his own now without breasfeeding and he has no more night wakes. Elfreda checked up on me daily. She really is an amazing person and helped me soooo much.

    - Cheraldy Abrahams

  • Working with Elfreda gave me the confidence and reassurance I needed to gently help my LO learn more independent sleep habits and create a routine that worked well for our family. From the get-go Elfreda went above and beyond, never making me feel like I was pestering or bothering her, and always offering helpful, insightful advice and suggestions. Her constant support had been invaluable, I am so happy to have found her and to have learned so much from her. Thank you for everything, especially hyping me up and cheering me on when I wanted to quit!! So worth it!

    - Heather Sherry

  • Elfreda has been such a huge help for my children’s sleep struggles. I have hired sleep trainers, paid for online guides, done webinars, bought books - you name it. She was finally able to help us with my 20 month old, 4 year old and 6 year old. She truly cares about her clients and makes suggestions that I was comfortable with and that I actually had not heard of prior to working with her! After 6 years of co-sleeping with my daughter, she is finally sleeping on her own, and it really only took a few days! My middle guy is still making progress but has come a long way from me having to sleep in his bed every night. My youngest was up every few hours looking for me and fighting bedtime and now she crawls into her own bed and sleeps all night!! I cannot recommend her enough and on top of all that, she is reasonably priced and worth every penny!! She has given my family the greatest gift of all - SLEEP!!

    -Danielle Drori